The Hidden Symbolism Behind Your Wedding Cake Revealed

Last Updated on February 21, 2025 by Ruby And The Wolf

From ancient fertility symbols to modern declarations of love, discover why the wedding cake remains the sweetest tradition of all time – and why you absolutely need one for your big day.

The Ancient Origins of Wedding Cake Traditions

The wedding cake’s journey through history is as rich and layered as the confections we celebrate with today. In ancient Rome, marriage ceremonies concluded with the groom breaking a loaf of wheat bread over the bride’s head – a gesture believed to bring prosperity and fertility. This seemingly simple act laid the foundation for what would become one of wedding history’s most enduring traditions. Historical records show that in Roman times (around 100 BCE), these wheat cakes, known as ‘confarreatio,’ were considered sacred offerings to the gods, symbolizing the official bond between husband and wife.

During medieval times, the tradition evolved as guests would bring small cakes to weddings, stacking them as high as possible. The newlyweds would attempt to kiss over this towering stack – success meant a lifetime of prosperity. This practice eventually transformed into the tiered wedding cakes we know today, with Queen Victoria’s elaborate 1840 wedding cake setting the standard for the modern white-iced masterpieces.

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FAQ

What if I don’t want a wedding cake?

But for the couple who wants to break from tradition, there are still plenty of ways to serve a show-stopping dessert that pays homage to the custom without serving an actual cake. Over the past few years, the wedding industry has seen the rise of many dessert trends: cupcakes, donut walls, and macarons, to name a few.

Do all guests eat wedding cake?

However, it’s common nowadays for some guests to decline a cake slice, so you can usually get away with ordering enough cake for just 80 percent of guests – remember, that includes ALL the cake you order, whether you do one cake or two (or more!). Always consult with a professional baker to get their opinion, as well!

Why do people keep a piece of their wedding cake?

The tradition of saving the top layer of a wedding cake dates back to the 19th century when it was saved as a symbol of good luck. The tradition gained traction in the Victorian era, as many couples adopted this custom as part of their wedding reception celebrations.

Is a wedding cake stand necessary?

Cake stands can be a great addition to your wedding cake, but it’s not always necessary or the best idea depending your cake. So, it’s great you are asking because it’s not a given. There are 2 general types of cake stands, the kind that have a foot or a pedestal and the ones that are more of a base.

What is the superstition about wedding cake?

At one point or another every couple will hear that they are to save the top tier of their wedding cake for their one year anniversary – but why? Historically, saving of the cake was done so that when the couple had their first child (usually expected within a year’s time, around their anniversary).